Do you sometimes feel that you are the only one doing the work in a relationship and that you would rather make a guy chase you? How would you like to be the one who is pursued rather than the one in pursuit? Ever wondered what it is going to take to really get a hold of this guy and make him wonder where you have been all of this life? If you are ready to have a man chase you instead of having to chase him then reading this article will be your key to getting him in pursuit...
The first thing to do is to challenge him to become a more courageous man and to appeal to the hunter in him. If you are the one in pursuit right now you can bet that he is surely never going to relieve you of the duty. You have to give him a reason to pursue you. How do you do this? By asserting your independence over your own life and giving him some space. Cut back about one out of every three times that you see or contact him and see how he fills up the space.
Second, remember that men do not move at the same pace as women when making emotional connections. If you are expecting him to move at your speed you can bet that he is feeling pressured. Why? Because of the way that men process the building of emotional connections. This is not something which you can do anything to speed up, but you will slow it down by trying to do so. Take things one moment at a time and enjoy the process of getting to know each other.
The final thing is that you have to put a higher value on yourself. You have to believe that you deserve to be pursued and that you are someone who is worth his effort. If he is not demonstrating this, believe it anyway. Let him decide whether or not he feels the same way but make sure that you are not 'pleading' with him. One of the biggest reasons why he may be taking your for granted is because you are doing the same with yourself. Put a higher value on yourself and remember that if this man does not want you that someone will.
Once you really get a hold of these principles then you are well on our way to being able to make a guy chase you. Good luck.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones. Tina is part of the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women who want to understand male psychology, how to attract men, and find true love. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
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