Monday 15 June 2009

Three Things That Make Men Get Turned Off Fast

Have you ever felt like men get turned off at you and that the John Mayer song "My Stupid Mouth" is the theme song of your dating life? Can you relate with this: I could see clearly and an indelible line was drawn between what was good, what just slipped out and what went wrong?" If so, how would you like to know what makes men get turned off so that you can get more dates and keep them? If you are looking for the answer to curing your sneaker breath, here are three things to avoid like poison.

• Discussions about his income

Bad, bad idea unless you want to get rid of this man really quick. On the other hand, if he talks about this too soon be is probably trying too hard to impress you with what he makes. This means that he is insecure and that he may tend to get jealous easy or overly needy. This may mean that you have to pay for some of your dates if he has more modern views about dating and money. Just suck it up and let it go until the relationship matures a bit.

• Discussion about sex

Again, there may be some men who are ok with this but probably not the type of men you really want to date. If you talk about sex too soon, you are going to end up turning off the right men and attracting the wrong ones like a lightning rod. Keep away from this subject and let the relationship mature before you bring it up.

• Your horrible ex boyfriend

Who cares how bad it was? This new man does not know him, he does not even know you yet and you are already asking him to get involved in listening to something which has nothing to do with him. For better or worse, let the past go and see if you can build something entirely new with this man. Again, you may not turn off all men with this but the ones who don't are probably okay with building themselves up by hearing you tear down someone else.

So these are the things which make men get turned off. Keep them out of your conversations and focus on more important things and you will have a much more rewarding dating life.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones. Tina is part of the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women who want to understand male psychology, how to attract men, and find true love. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

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